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Wednesday, September 29, 2010

MADONNA VOGUED SO WHY NOT YOU? VOGUE OF ART: THE CLASS YOU CAN'T MISS


Located in Midtown in New York City, on the fourth floor of Pearl Studios, you will find a class breaking down walls and stereotypes taught by none other but Mr $5,000 Vogue Evolution alumni Legendary Dashaun (Evisu) Wesley. Here is the where you'll find "Vogue of Art".

Vogue or "voguing" is a highly stylized, modern house dance, that evolved out of the Harlem ballroom dance scene. Vogue was originally popularized in the late 1980s, within the inner-city club scenes of the United States. It gained mainstream attention when featured by Malcolm McLaren in his Deep_in_Vogue #1 single in 1989, and by Madonna in her song and video of the same name, and has recently been returned to domestic and international attention again by the dance group Vogue Evolution of America's Best Dance Crew. (Wikipedia)

"Vogue of Art" is a classically directed vogue beginner class where Dashaun teaches "the vogue blueprint" as well as freestyle techniques forcing students to develop their own style of vogue while maintaining its essence. He alternates between teaching vogue basic steps and choreographed vogue routines. The class consists of a wide array of persons from local ballscene participants to international dance students taking dance classes on student visas - male and female and introduces them to the highly anticipated category in the ballscene as we know it.

Tonight begins with Dashaun's close friend David, warming up the class with basic stretch techniques. Like most professional dance classes, warming up the muscles and limbs are necessary to get the body prepared for the rigorous activity which this class is not in lack of. According to Dashaun, "Vogue Evolution usually vogues and then stretches to vogue again" and with the intensity of this form of dance, most beginners should allow their bodies to get used to the movement.

It was amazing to see the skill set difference between three very different students in tonight's class and yet they kept up (with a few slip-ups along the way) with a sense of eagerness that made the class enjoyable to watch. David, an aspiring actor, proposes a new exercise where each student must vogue freestyle displaying an emotion or character picked from a piece of paper and you had to stand in awe of how Paul, an aspiring ballscene voguer, displays Broadway in his rendition and how Omar, an Italian student here on a visa, vogued like Superman. It was a pleasure to watch as well as trying to figure out which word they picked out of the hat.

After the exercise is over, Dashaun gives quick information and directs them to start rehearsing the choreographed piece from last week's class. Pumping Kevin JZ Prodigy's "Listen Up (Insider Get In)", the group quickly lines up for a catwalk and awesome synchronised hand performances. Noticeably, Dashaun has grown from being a member of a group to a skilled choreographer by first being able to motivate his students and then making sure that even their lines are straight as they execute each step. They are no "kiki girlfriend" moments. He is strict and determined to get the routine in sync not only for my camera but to maintain the essence of the dance. After several more added moves and from-the-top rehearsals, each student ended it in a true-to-fashion dip.

An hour is definitely not enough time to get the true art of the dance but with the schedule he follows, after a few classes you will be able to see your own personal growth and be able to grasp new moves of your own as he tells another student he's done.

Ending the class, Dashaun announces that on October 27th, he will be teaching a FREE class at the studio to give back to all those who have supported him thus far. (That's right - Roxi always gets the tea FIRST!) This class is open to all on that date. Dashaun is also prepping now to move on to bigger heights as he has been asked to teach vogue at the well-known Broadway Dance Center since his contract with Block was arranged. This is a big feat since BDC has had so many popular teachers as Tyce Diorio and Mia Michaels from "So You Think You Can Dance". His move to BDC has not yet been determined as of yet.

When asked why he decided to teach vogue, Dashaun replies "Let the other girls win the next $5,000. I am aimed to give back to the community".

Well said Dashaun. You're paying it forward like a true legend should and on behalf of those who yearn to catwalk, duckwalk and dip like the best, we thank you.

Check out 'Vogue Of Art' every Wednesday at Pearl Studios, 500 8th Avenue between 35th and 36th Sts, between 8pm and 9pm and follow Dashaun on Twitter (@dashaunwesley) to find out more information as well get to-the-minute updates on future shows and events. To see more about the class (if you're hoping to get a glimpse), see the class trailer below as well as Dashaun's $5,000 winning production at the 2005 Atlanta Awards Ball.





xoxo
Roxi

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

THE HOUSE OF EVISU SENDS YOU A CLUE! OCT 9TH, 2010

THE CONCEPTUAL HOUSE OF EVISU PRESENTS TO YOU "CLUE 2010"

DATE: SATURDAY, OCTOBER, 9TH 2010
TIME: DOORS OPEN AT 7PM, BALL STARTS AT 8PM PROMPT!!
COMMENTATORS: JACK MIZRAHI / SELVIN KHAN
DJ: VJUAN ALLURE
TABLES: $200
DOOR: $30



ATTENTION: ID STATING THAT YOU ARE 18 Y/O OR OLDER IS REQUIRED UPON ENTRY , ALSO NO GLITTER OR SPRAY PAINT, BODY PAINT OF ANY KIND WILL BE ALLOWED INSIDE. SECURITY WILL THOROUGHLY CHECK ALL BAGS.

LOCATION: THE CATHEDRAL NYC
504 W 41st Street, NY, NY

Women’s Face- (Anna Maria) 1 point
Appearing from country to country to manipulate the poor with false promises of fortune was a trait that was passed down to Mr. Green from his late mother, Anna Maria. But even her teachings may not save her son tonight! Anna Maria lives again in spirit in an effort to free her son from the Clue Mansion.
CLUE= GYPSY; FORTUNE TELLER; MYSTICAL WARDROBE.

Butch Realness- (Casualties) 1 point
Col. Mustard received numerous honors while serving for his country, before conforming to a life of dishonesty and trickery. His bitterness stems from many friends of his that were INJURED on the front line during the Vietnam War.
CLUE= ARMY FATIGUES; BRUISES/SCARS; BLOOD; and WEAPONS.

Women's Runway- (Lady Hero) 1 point
During The War, many barriers were broken and the females in the Service earned positions they've never could have achieved before. Col. Mustard spoke of one particular unforgettable Lady Lieutenant who helped him lead the US to victory. He said her PRESENCE, CHARISMA, SEX APPEAL and SHADE were some key factors that made her an Icon within the Women’s Revolution. Remember her.
CLUE= SEXY LIEUTENANT or HIGH FASHION SOLDIER.

Transman Perfect 10's- (Love For Yvette) 1 point
Shortly before her position as the Mansions Maid, Yvette searched long and hard for her Prince Charming. She often questioned why it was so difficult to find a Guy with the elements of REALNESS, SEX, and SWAGG that she's been looking for all her life. On this evening; profess your love to Yvette and become her Ultimate Companion.
CLUE= A SEXY LOOK showing your SWAGG and selling your REALNESS with a RED ROSE for Yvette.

OTA Old Way- (Law and Enforcement) 1 Point
The police usually play a significant role in the tricky world of crime. Whether it be the Crooked Cop or the Too Nosy For His/Her Own Good butinsky, they too have a hand in the outcome of the game. Some last long, others won’t. Prove tonight that Law Enforcement plays the Game just as well as the Criminals. And sometimes even better.
CLUE= A Male or Female Figure POLICE OFFICER.

OTA Body- (Fully Equipped) 1 point each (mf &ff)
Its definitely hard to conceal anything when everybody is a suspect. For those who are smart, they know that there are a few accessories that make it so easy. Come equipped with only the necessary.
CLUE= Females Figures as Puss -N- BOOTS; Male Figures in Combat BOOTS.

Hands Performance- (You've Been Caught) 1 point
There's nothing more intense than being caught in the act of your Crime. Now the question is whether you will continue to see the job through, or stumble and freeze. You've already been caught Red Handed. What else do you have to lose?
CLUE= A CREATIVE and CUSTOMIZED RED GLOVE.

Bazaar- (Beneath the Stairs) 1 point
The guests pull match sticks to see which pair will team up and search the mansion. As you and your partner in crime pull the shortest stick, it is your responsibility to search the basement. Wadsworth warns everyone to be careful and looks you in the eyes and says, “Especially you. What you will find beneath the stairs will leave you bewildered and confused.” What lies beneath the stairs?
CLUE= Use your imagination

Best Dressed – (The Invitation) 1 point each (mf & ff ) $500 MF and $500 FF
Invitations to the Clue Mansion are only given to a select few. These few are the Who’s Who of Society. When Wadsworth opens the door, he will look not only for an invitation, but also a unique personal style. Keep in mind you will be rubbing shoulders with the elite, so the look should be memorable as well as fashionable.
CLUE= Tastefully done

OTA Foot, Eye and Surprise – (Shock Value) 1 point $250
Mrs. Peacocks eclectic sense of style has been called many things from cutting edge to gawdy yet it all seems to fit her personality to a tee. You see…. with Peacock everything is about Shock value. Can you say the same?
CLUE= Shocking eyewear, devastating footwear and an ovah surprise concealed in a box with a question mark. Fall Winter 2010-2011 pieces.

Interview of Legendary Jennifer Evisu


Interview of Gregg Evisu


Clips of Mr. $5000
Legendary Dashaun Evisu


Sunday, September 19, 2010

STOP! Lemme fix my weave! Hair Affair: More than just cuts and color

So I've been asked a million questions about the contest and what HAIR AFFAIR is. Hair Affair falls along the lines of fantasy hair. Think Derek J and his current show "Hair Battle Spectacular"...

Below are some pictures I've found and a video of Mr. Bizarre himself, G Xtravaganza walking the cat. This forces you to think outside the box. The images speak volumes so I won't explain anymore. GET CREATIVE!

For rules and details about the online ball, click here

xoxo
Roxi







G Xtravaganza "Hair Affair" Rumble Ball #22

Monday, September 13, 2010

"MY NAME'S BOND, JAMES BOND": Why being a fruitful 007 is your best first step.


Before you consider a house or start your own, ask yourself this: Am I producing results on my own merit? A house, much like a basketball team, thrives on the points that each member racks up and the participation of the team as a whole. So why be on a team if you don't care to play? No one ever strives to the benchwarmer!

A desired house member is a productive '007' or 'free agent' (they both mean you hold no affiliation to a house). Most house parents are looking for members that can be fine tuned, tweaked and slightly improved upon in order to uplift the house name as well as win trophies to continue their legacy. Some parents choose members on what could be while good parents choose based on what is good now and can be better later.

At one time, free agents ruled the ballscene having houses vie for their membership. Every house wants the next hot thing and if you never light your own match, you will never be hot. In this scene, it isn't who you know but rather who you sat down.

In the WBT scene, so many are nervous and fearful of rejection and refuse to build up enough confidence to compete. Some participate one or two times without a win and give up while you have others who study, research, practice and battle time and time again. Guess which of the three will turn heads and earn their Life...

SO HOW DO I GET NOTICED BY A HOUSE?

EASY... WALK! If you show that you are willing to dedicate the time and energy in yourself and put your best face forward, houses will stop and pay attention. They want you to give a challenge. It forces their members to step their game up and gives them a formidable opponent. No one ever wants to win by being the only one walking. How many people do you know train to win by forfeit? The objective is show your skills and get public interest and snag the attention of a house willing to help you go farther than you did on your own.

HOW DO I WALK?

Find a category that best suits your interest and research it. Do you have what it takes to pull the look off. Don't attempt to walk face if you have bad skin. Don't walk butch realness if you can't pass for a boy. Tone your body up for body categories or teach yourself to be tantilizing for sex siren. Find out who your competition is. Study them. Pick a ball you'd like to deal your hand at, gather the tools for your effect and enter the runway! Walking will fill you with anxiety but it's also a great pleasure to entertain the audience as well as proving to yourself that you can do it.

WHAT IF I'M NOT SURE WHAT TO DO...?

Let me help you. Starting Sept 15th, I am sponsoring THE FIRST "BANG BANG" ONLINE BALL! That's right, I'm sending the winner $100 out of my own pocket for the most creative and unique... (no, I won't spill the tea! You must wait until Sept 15th for more details).

HOW DO I ENTER THE CATEGORY? (ok. ok. I'll at least give you the contest entry details)


  • Look out for my page posting on Sept 15th entitled "SHOT ME DOWN 'BANG BANG' BALL". There you will find the theme of the category.

  • You must take a picture of your effect with a note that says "ROXI BANG BANG" and email it to ROXIBANGBANG@GMAIL.COM. Contest closes on Sept 30th.

  • The top ten entries will be posted and YOU, THE PUBLIC must vote to select the winner. (How fair can that be?) Voting ends on October 15th and a winner will be declared! One Entry Per Person/Email! Multiple entries does not increase your chances of winning.


Pretty simple, huh? So subscribe by email below, spread the word and be ready to let your creative juices work for you on Sept 15th!

xoxo
Roxi

Saturday, September 11, 2010

"WE ARE FAMILY! I GOT ALL MY SISTERS WITH ME": Runway as a House

As a house categories show a level of determination, dedication and unity that isn't usually displayed for a regular category. It requires practice and a lot of trust to depend on each member to follow through with the category. Below are some runway as a house teams over the years. (Pls note: I was looking for House of Prada Runway as a House footage from the 2008 Changing Faces Ball but couldnt find any. If you have footage, please send it to me at roxibangbang@gmail.com or link me in the comments box)

xoxo
Roxi

House of Enigma - 1997


House of Infinti - 2005


House of Manolo-Blahnik - 2006

Friday, September 10, 2010

"PUT THAT UMBRELLA DOWN! WE DON'T NEED YOUR SHADE!": The Ballroom Shade Debate


After having a conversation with my good good BQ girlfriend about various "shady" (notice the quotes) instances in the WBT scene, it was proposed that the women should "get it together because the mainstream scene does it all the time". Emphatically, I have to agree BUT the mainstream scene does it a certain extent. In my opinion, shade is a vital part of the ballroom scene whether it be pointing out another's flaws in comparison to yourself in battle zone, dismissing your opponents props during runway or calling out a fake label when you see one during a fashion category. They speak their opinions about status to one's face instead of the backtalk that has flooded the WBT scene. Personally, I feel that a lot of people speak badly behind each other's back not because they are scared but because they know that it was spark an all-out unnecessary war over an opinion.

The difference between mainstream shade and WBT shade is the WBT tend to touch ENTIRELY TOO MUCH and the mainstream leaves the shade ON THE RUNWAY. They have the ability to see that it is for the function and not take things personally. (I truly believe that some of the WBT take titles, trophies and wins entirely too seriously.)

The one person I know who exposes TRUE shade is Icon Jack Mizrahi (@gorgeousjack) and after searching his youtube channel found the PERFECT example of exactly what I mean. Below is a video taped by Jack at Ashley Icon's 2009 Ball in NYC. Even if you have no idea who these people are or understand the story behind the disagreements, you have to notice one thing: they've said their peace in each other's face AND MOVED ON without incident.

After watching this video and seeing the maturity, even with angered, the mainstream scene has in terms of discrepencies, perhaps you will rethink your choice of getting upset about a comment or action at a function. Truly it isn't that serious.

Roll that beautiful bean footage... (I couldnt help myself. Hee hee)



Any comments? I'd love to read them...

xoxo
Roxi

3rd Annual Unity Ball Video Clip


Hosted by: Legendary Mother Jaimee Balenciaga, Overall Mother Reign Moulin & Mother Chanel Prada
at
Loews Hotel
1065 Peachtree Street
Atlanta, Georgia, 30309

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"LETS GET PHYSICAL!" - The 'Body' category breakdown


At a Ball you see those who practiced hours of dance to improve for the win; those who have pumped their hallways back and forth for hours in runway and those who took theIr creative visions to the max for effects. You rarely put much thought into those who train hours upon hours to improve upon their physique for the body categories.

We love to oogle the WBT (women, butch & transmen) who strip down to next to nothing in order to put their bodies on display for us to judge. While the women "shake what their mama gave them", the male figures pose and flex for the audience's delight. What we don't take into consideration is that these cats have sub-categories because much like our fingerprints, all bodies are NOT created equal.

Womens Body breaks down into four sub-categories:


  • Model's Body - Slim and proportionate. This sub-category reflects a bikini models physique. Toned without much body fat.
  • Athletic Body - Muscular yet feminine. This sub-category reflects a body builder's physique. Flexibility, strength and little to no body fat.
  • T&A - Hourglass or Figure 8 shape. This sub-category reflects a strippers physique. Ample breasts, thighs and booty are the criteria.
    And Lastly...
  • Luscious - Plus-sized but neat. This sub-category reflects a thicker T&A physique where even though the body is thick, the measurements are still proportionate to each other in order to appear hourglass shaped.


Butch/Trans Body breaks down into three sub-categories:


  • CatBoy - Slim and lightly cut. This sub-category is for those who have just started working out and toning up. Their body is still soft but the cuts are starting to form.
  • Junior - Moderately Muscular. This sub-category is those who are midway bulked up and cuts are more easily distinct.
  • Senior - BEEFCAKE. This sub-category is for those who are completely buff. Massive muscles, deep cuts and ownership of the coveted "Iliad's crest".


Now while the women shake and gyrate to sell their bodies, the butch and transmen pose like Apollo to showcase theirs. The women display acrobatic skills while the male figures challenge each other in calisthenics.

This is not a category for just anyone. Much like body building competition, one must train to maintain their bodies to compete. Exercise, proper diet, proper hydration and skin upkeep is crucial for this category. Excessive scarring or stretch marks are deterrents to the judges as well. You must take pride in your body and treat it like a well-oiled machine.

WOMEN BODY VIDS





BUTCH BODY VIDEO

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

"GET YOUR HAND OUT MY POCKET!": Guide to Ballroom Etiquette

A Ball is filled with anxiety and sometimes emotions will jolt you to do things that you ordinarily wouldn't based on your confidence of your talent. Much like past Balls, opponents were graceful in terms of addressing themselves, their opponents, the judges and the other houses. Much like sports, coaches strive to maintain a level of maturity during a game. Basketball players who are not participating must arrive to the court in a suit to display a level of class. They must encourage those playing and cheer for them. They are fined for ating out of character based on the game. All that encompasses good sportsmanship. Good Sportmanship is defined as "Conduct and attitude considered as befitting participants in competition, especially fair play, courtesy, striving spirit, and grace in losing." Good sportsmanship is a lacking necessity in the ballroom lately so here is my guide of maintaining a sense of balance when emotions and nerves are running high.


  • Keep your comments about someone else's effect or walk to yourself.
  • When your category is called, line up at the back of the runway and patiently wait for your turn to walk.
  • Thank the judges for giving you tens OR chopping you as you exit the runway.
  • DO NOT TOUCH your opponent in battle zone FOR ANY REASON!
  • If shade is called for in the category, remember that its nothing personal once you get off the runway.
  • Whether or not you win or lose the battle, hug or shake hands with your opponent.
  • DO NOT ARGUE with judges about their vote. It is their personal opinion and should it be shade, the host or presenter should rectify the situation.
  • If you were chopped, ask the judge who chopped you why it was given. Take heed to their reason and learn from it for next time.
  • Do not bad mouth an entire house based on the deeds of one person.
  • Do not take personal offense to the decision and plot on the person or house for the next ball.
  • Lastly, NO FIGHTING! If you are that upset that you would need to fight over a $6 trophy, the ballscene is NOT FOR YOU!
  • If you are spectating, even at your table these rules apply.


Watch this video of Danielle Ninja walking Women's Performance at Latex Ball 2006. Notice that she gives her opponent space to vogue freely. Notice that they hug after the battle is over and notice how Danielle graciously thanks the judges for her winning votes and how her opponent exits the stage without incident. If all Balls were like this, what a masterful display we would bring to the youth coming up after us.

xoxo
Roxi